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Orgasmic or Orgasm?

Hey loves x

Wow, it’s been a loooooong time between posts.

I feel like in that time, I’ve shed many skins, “died a thousand deaths,” and been a million different women.

I can not possibly explain what this work has taught me, but suffice to say, it has permanently changed me, my life, and my experience and understanding of sexuality.

One thing that I’ve noticed so much is that some men are so focused on the orgasm, or frustrated that there is no orgasm, that they miss the opportunity of activating the lifefirce/ erotic energy and feeling the subtlety of this healing energy vibrating through their bodies.

If orgasm happens, great.

But if this is the focus, then you are missing the most powerful potential in what I offer.

This is a chance to get orgasmic. This is an opportunity to circulate orgasmic energy through your body. This is an opportunity to release healing and feel-good chemicals. This is an opportunity to vibrate lifeforce. Allow it.  Indulge in each moment. Appreciate it. Surrender to my touch.

Let what happens, happen. Enjoy the ride. Embrace the mystery. Feel your body. Let yourself get lost in the shared erotic moments. Let go.

Cry, laugh, shake, meditate, groan, growl, purr. As long as you respect my boundaries, I welcome it all.

The peak orgasm experience is fleeting and is nothing in comparison to living an orgasmic life. Living on the edge of orgasm is where it’s at.

I don’t want to be touched to make me cum, I wanna be touched to get my erotic energy running through my body and to be orgasmic.

And I want to touch you with this intention.

And I want you to know that as I rub my body over yours, my body vibrates with erotic energy, and it feels amazing. But it doesn’t mean I want you to penetrate me. It means I fkn love that I have a job that activates the lifeforce energy in my clients whilst doing the same for me (if you’re respectful enough that I can fully relax).

I have had a couple of clients in the past month feel frustrated that they didn’t ejaculate so it felt important to speak to this.

There are a lot of good books on the topic of the benefit of not ejaculating. The Multi Orgasmic Man by Mantak Chia even explains how to master orgasm without ejaculation.

There is so much we are not taught about the power of our sexuality. It is up to us to read, research, and question so that we can harness this lifeforce energy and channel it in constructive ways.

Big Hugs.

The importance of touch.

Imagine a world where nobody felt sexually repressed or frustrated, and everybody had their needs for loving touch met in abundance. My vision is for this to become reality. In this reality, I see that we’d all love and give, in open hearted generosity, trust and joy.

This is why I do what I do. This is why I love my job. It’s not always perfect or enjoyable, but when I have those clients whom are so grateful simply to be touched lovingly, it makes it all worth it, and it feels like a big part of why I am here.

The service I offer is so important. I’d love to see a world where, instead of being judged and taboo for the masses, erotic body rubs were seen as just as important and “normal” as chiropractic adjustment.

I love to advocate what I do, to make it more accessible and normalised. I would like to encourage anyone craving touch or craving someone to talk to, or craving a safe space to explore their sexuality, to seek this experience.

It’s been a bit of a journey for me, in discovering my love for this work, to setting up my personal life, so that it all flows harmoniously. It’s in some ways, a huge sacrifice, but more than that, it’s a huge gift to me.

I feel like a big part of my purpose is this work. My personality is suited to it. Even my traumas have shaped me for this work. My whole life theme has prepared me for it. And even though I’ve been doing this work, on and off, for a couple of years now, I feel like I’m only just beginning to truly embrace it as my craft, my sacred offering to all that is.

It has taken a lot of letting go, a lot of transformation and a lot of shattering paradigms to really step into this work. But here I am, and I’m honoured and excited to be here.

I am so much happier when giving love to many and when emanating love from within, than when love is focused on just one person. Exclusive love depletes my energy field, whereas radiating love for all, amplifies my energy field.

So, if you are craving loving sensual touch, and the safety to enjoy your sexuality and pleasure, then a session with me may be just what you need.

When our needs for loving sensual touch are met, when our feel good hormones of oxytocin and serotonin are flowing, we can give so much more abundantly to our loved ones. These hormones also soothe our nervous system, so when we receive an abundance of loving touch, we feel calmer and more able to handle the pressures of human life.

When we’ve been able to open up and share ourselves in a confidential accepting space, when we feel heard, we can then offer the same to the world.

When touch is given from pure intentions and received in purity, with no strings attached, no expectations and no obligations, it can be incredibly transformative.

There are many reasons why one craves more touch in their lives. Time and time again, when speaking with clients, I continue to realise how paying for this service is such a clear and healthy choice. The boundaries are clear. No one is being unintentionally lead on. No one is wasting their precious time trying to pickup at pubs or on dating sites.

And when we are not needy for touch, when we are feeling nurtured in this way, it is much easier to go out into the world and radiate love and attract loving connections, compared to when we feel lack and neediness around touch and affection.

Many blessings x